Currently in a position at the moment where I live with someone but have started to have feelings for someone else. Can't stop thinking about them, can't eat, can't sleep! Question is, do I tell the one I'm with that I'm wanting someone else or do I leave it alone until the other person confirms their feelings for me?
Is this after the ducati test rides? Jokes aside if you don't want to be with someone don't keep and yourself in a relationship you don't want. Might be painful bow but fairer in the long run.
Been there, done that (or them, anyway ). Fwiw my advice is; Think it through, & go/stay with the one who will give you the better life.
Is the 'Thread Starter' now giving himself advice, or am I reading this wrong??? Confused of Cali....??
End the first relationship before starting the second. how would you feel if the boot was on the other foot?
There is too simple answers here... If you want to do the morally correct thing then tell your current gf about what's going on and how you're feeling about her/life. If you want to do the best thing for yourself (safe/risky at the same time) then wait to see if the other girl has mutual feelings for you. So it depends on your morals, what kind of person are you?
I think that you should man up and show the current partner some respect and tell her what's going on. Keeping this from her and keeping your own options open is totally selfish and doesn't reflect well on you. It's only natural to have a bit of the "grass is greener" once in a while - it's how you deal with it that matters. That's assuming that she hasn't been reading this and your bags aren't packed for you by the time you get home from work. You may have posted anonymously, but never underestimate the sleuthing powers of a seriously pissed off gf.
LoL. That says a lot about me and my own assumptions. I was going with the theory that as most of the members on here are blokes, the chances were that it was a bloke posting. Apologies if the postee is female, trans or gender neutral. Im now going to slink off and re read my PC compliancey manual.